I am remodeling my relatives house and drugs store will be refinishing the floors. The floors are 2" oak tongue and groove and have that orange look to them. She wants them a darker color.
My question is what grit do I start and finish with when sanding down to the bare wood?
And is there a pattern for sanding it such as diagonally or with the grain or across?
Is an oil stain the best to use and is it typically rolled, brushed, or sprayed on?

Any other advice you can give me would be great. Please don’t say to hire someone, thats not an option and I’m not a typical beginner.
Thankyou all.
Is there a better alternative to polyurethane. When I think of that it seems better suited towards furniture.